Fitting in is hard.. when you are totally have different mind set and also different interest..
One thing we can do.. let them think what they want and we just do what the best for us..
We are incapable to satisfy all people around us..
The right people will come.. (if lucky enough)
None of us want to isolated from people..
it is nature when you got something, people will ask for your help...
it is added value if you are funny, like to butt other people, made fun of others and got looking.. people will hanging around you
There are few thing I'm holding..
1st..be confident in what you do..
2nd.. watch what you gonna say
3rd.. take an action towards what you said!
It is horrible got "friend" who really enjoy watching you fall apart..
Just hanging there with our resolve and also who dearest to you..
We can not change anything in past but we can change something in present so something might be happen in future..
Do not ever regret about mistake you have done but learn from it..
In public, do not ever argue something about religion.. (it is sensitive issue)
Some might like to aim and shot you if you are newbie and asking something "irrelevant" about religion..
People who are really obsessed with their mind set will always find the mistake that done by a person who they think a threat in religion.. most of peoples are stereotype (they even did not realize it)..
Yes, I am Muslim and I got many multiracial friends who come from many beliefs.. so I can compare the situation very well.. most of my friends did not judge others by what their belief but by what they behave..
So.. If you want to fitting in.. just remember : let the society with their culture.. if you can not stand it, ignore it.. if you cant ignore it, please leave the society and find other niche which will fit into you.. :)
~The more you know how it functioning, the more uglier you will found it~
Got this from one of my friend.. really heartwarming.. (^~^)
One thing we can do.. let them think what they want and we just do what the best for us..
We are incapable to satisfy all people around us..
The right people will come.. (if lucky enough)
None of us want to isolated from people..
it is nature when you got something, people will ask for your help...
it is added value if you are funny, like to butt other people, made fun of others and got looking.. people will hanging around you
There are few thing I'm holding..
1st..be confident in what you do..
2nd.. watch what you gonna say
3rd.. take an action towards what you said!
It is horrible got "friend" who really enjoy watching you fall apart..
Just hanging there with our resolve and also who dearest to you..
We can not change anything in past but we can change something in present so something might be happen in future..
Do not ever regret about mistake you have done but learn from it..
In public, do not ever argue something about religion.. (it is sensitive issue)
Some might like to aim and shot you if you are newbie and asking something "irrelevant" about religion..
People who are really obsessed with their mind set will always find the mistake that done by a person who they think a threat in religion.. most of peoples are stereotype (they even did not realize it)..
Yes, I am Muslim and I got many multiracial friends who come from many beliefs.. so I can compare the situation very well.. most of my friends did not judge others by what their belief but by what they behave..
So.. If you want to fitting in.. just remember : let the society with their culture.. if you can not stand it, ignore it.. if you cant ignore it, please leave the society and find other niche which will fit into you.. :)
~The more you know how it functioning, the more uglier you will found it~
